Well Nunzie, twice I've written up a veritable book (I'm not kidding you, the post was HUGE) with my suggestions, and BOTH times, halfway through, my computer crashed.
So, here's try #3... this time I'm on another computer and I'll make it a bit shorter. (EDIT- HAHAHAHA yeah right)
First off, I love my Magnum. I got it about 3 months ago. I live in Upstate New York, and I got the 5.7L V8 Hemi with AWD. I absolutely love the AWD in the snow, but what really makes the car amazing in the slippery stuff is the ESP Stability and Traction Control. It's like the car has a mind of its own when you start to slip. It basically takes over and makes the car feel like its scrabbling for a foothold on the ground. The best part is that it's standard on the 3.5L V6 SXT (if I remember right), so no matter what route you take, Hemi or no, you'll have this wonderful piece of technology in your car.
The AWD, as I said, is nice, and not having driven a RWD Magnum, I can't say how much better it really is in the snow. Keep in mind that AWD does cost an extra $2,000 extra as well as reduces your fuel economy by about 2-3 mg. With my Hemi Magnum, it definitely has a bite at the gas pump. If you want to watch the budget, I'd recommend the 3.5L V6. I hear they have plenty of spunk, are a bit more fuel efficient, and still a joy to drive. Only spring for the Hemi V8 if you have chronic lead-foot disorder, characterized by urges to mash the gas pedal to the floor after stops, and drive like a valet on speed (guilty as charged!)
As for other options, I'm 23 and thus don't have any kids (though my last girlfriend had 4!) However I definitely recommend the Protection package if you're going to be toting the kids around a lot. It includes side front-and-rear curtain airbags and self-sealing tires, as well as a cabin air filter for those with allergies (like me). I'm big on safety and I'm glad I've got the Protection package. I believe this option costs about $600 more.
The SXT comes standard with some pretty decent options already, I'm not sure how much more you'll want to spend (especially if you plan on putting 2 grand into AWD).
If you're an audiophile, you might want to go for the 6-speaker sound system which I have, and very much enjoy. It also runs about an extra $600. If you're REALLY looking for good sound though, you can probably get an aftermarket sound system installed for that much which is even better, so take your pick.
If your kids are the restless sort, you might want to go with the rear DVD entertainment center which is pretty cool, though costs almost $1,200. If you're thinking economically you can probably buy an in-car DVD player for a couple hundred bucks that mounts to a head rest and flips out that will do the job for a lot less.
I don't have the Navigation system in my car, though considering how often I get lost, it's something I sometimes wish I had. I've got the standard AM/FM and CD, which is nice, but I'd like to be able to play CDs with MP3s on them. The Navigation apparently integrates pretty well with the car, but as always, there are aftermarket versions you can get for less that function almost as well (but may need a costly install).
If you like leather, you can go for the Comfort Seating Group. It sets you up, for about $1,500, with all leather seats, front heated seats, and makes the passenger seat a power one. I've got it in my car, and while it's all rather nice to have, I wouldn't count it as a must-have in the car. It's fine for me because I like the leather, but the rear seats aren't heated, which might have your kids fighting over that toasty front seat during the winter when your spouse isn't riding along as well.
The Convenience Group III ($375) is more or less the dual climate control, which lets you have one side of the car blasting hot while the other side is a fridge. I haven't used it much, though the dual climate control does have a rather nifty temperature sensing feature that apparently uses an infrared sensor to look at the front driver and passengers body temp and determine how it needs to best route the air and at what temperature. It also takes into account factors such as whether the windows are open, the outside temperature, engine temp, etc. Kinda cool... though mine seems always to decide (no matter how friggin cold I am) that warm air should be blasted through the defrost vents and the floor vents. Maybe I'll see more variety from it during the warmer months. This package also includes automatic headlights and the one-touch up/down windows. (Having a 2005, I had to make a minor modification to activate my auto headlights and my windows only do one-touch down.)
Ok, before this gets too long, a few other options are the Bluetooth UConnect system ($360) which is nice if you like your car to interact with your bluetooth phone, letting you talk hands free in your car through a microphone in the mirror using your car speakers, make voice commands, save addresses and the like right into your car. Personally I get by just fine with a Bluetooth headset and a snazzy cell phone. I haven't gotten to try out my power sunroof much yet this winter, but I certainly look forward to the summer months with it. It runs about $1000. Then of course there's Sirius Satellite radio ($200) which I don't have (I'm happy with my CDs). The $250 roof rack, which I personally would rather not have (maybe I'll change my mind if I ever need to use it), $125 power adjustable pedals which I've hardly used (maybe you will if you and your spouse switch who is driving frequently). Rear Cargo organizer ($160) is kinda nifty, but then I just sorta toss my groceries in the back and clean up the resulting shake 'n bake when I get home. 
And you never did say whether you were going to buy new or used. I almost drove to Connecticut to buy an AWD Magnum SXT before a member on this very forum pointed me to an Ebay auction for my current car. I went and met the dealer, drove the car, loved it, and bought it for a good deal (23.5k + tax) with only 10k miles. If you're looking to go used, there are plenty of nice low-mileage 2005s still out there, and if they only have had 1 previous owner, you get an easter egg deal... a 7 year 70k mile warranty exclusive to the 2005 model year, provided you pay $160 or so to get the warranty transferred over to you.
Last but not least, reliability. Most people on here have had relatively few service issues (with a few exceptions). The early 2005 models (like mine) have some bugs, but if you get the dealer to iron them out under warranty and perform all the necessary recall work you should be in the clear. There are a few of us on here with AWD vehicles, and I haven't heard of any actual AWD-related service issues yet, though it may be a bit too early to tell. Keep in mind that it's basically a Mercedes transmission and suspension in these cars, so it's pretty well built. On the plus side, when you DO need repairs, you don't pay Mercedes prices. 
Looks like I wrote another book... but I hope this helps. 
Good luck!
Last edited by Electrofreak; 02-01-2007 at 03:52 AM.
2005 Inferno Red Magnum R/T AWD
Electronics Group, Convenience Group II, Protection Group, Roof Rack package (removed cross bars), Sunroof.
Mods: Superchips, tinted windows, painted calipers, auto headlights, blinker mod, air silencer and lower radiator baffle delete.
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